Tears = Pain Killer

“Don’t you cry!"
"You stop that crying right now.”
"If you cry you’re considered weak."

Don't you know that crying is a natural stress reliever??

one night i cried thoroughly then this guy act like 'buat bodoh je' ....and mestilah i marah kan-who's on the earth yang tak kan marah? (dalam hati mengamuk2 suruh dia pujuk tapi sangkaan jatuh meleset-leset!) then after that, he explained to me why he acted "bodohly'..hahhaah...he said when we are sad our body tend to release body endorphin which also can be known as pain killer. so when we cry, the tears will release the endorphin, phospate and magnesium. the endorphin itself is the natural chemicals in real tears (not crocodile tears) help flush out emotional tension.

in other words, HE 'buat bodoh' not because he doesnt care but he just want me to let it go first so that i could feel more release than it should be...huhu after he explained i felt like...auwww soooo sweet!...hahah

p/s: my advice is go rent a tear-jerker and let it all out!! now!